Thursday, 20 May 2010

Another ordinary Wednesday.


This was the start to my Wednesday. Mr Magician Extraordinaire who told Alex and I "hurry up and finish your breakfast the theater is about to start". We walked through to the living room to find two seats facing the stage (a table covered in blankets) and our host proudly standing on top of it. This was Alex's reaction.


A funny yet short magic skit was followed by the arrival of two friendly puppets - thing one and thing two (what can I say we read 'The cat in the Hat' a lot).


What a start to the day - smiles all round. It's great when you can really watch your kids express themselves.
Later on that day we went for a walk through the grey and wet town - but that didn't stop our boys from enjoying themselves as they trundled through on a toddlers trike with a make shift trailer attached.


We were stared at quite a lot but as foreigners with expression filled children - when are we not?
Cristi looked at me today on our walk and plainly said "Mama I wish I had been in your belly, then I would be Scottish. But I'm a gypsy and therefore I'm ugly and bad". This made me want to cry. It's so hard trying to teach your kids to be proud of who and what they are when they live in a culture where their heritage is constantly shunned and berated. This provides an illusion to them that it is normal and OK to talk about people this way, the people they biologically come from because the bigotry is so wildly spread about the Roma. It's sad sad sad!
However, I don't want to end on a sad note so I will show you how we ended our day.
The boys decided to help me clean and they were Oh so excited to do so.


I mean come on don't they look cool? However, my boy (like his mama not so fond of the cleaning process) thought it was much cooler to stay outside playing in the mud and rain. Needless to say the dirtiest thing at the end of the night was him.

Monday, 17 May 2010

Planes and Automobiles.




We went to the airport in the city to pick up Court and her sisters today. It was the tiniest airport I've ever been to and just had one plane. Hence the reason we didn't notice it and drove 30km past it oops!! When we got there Kiki said to me "mama I told you I saw it I told you I saw the planes". He actually had, but he said look at the planes then looked in the air so I was busy looking up and didn't notice that we were driving past the little airport - DOH!
Even though we didn't get to see their plane land he was still oh so excited to be there. It's the first time he's seen a plane on the ground and not just as 2 white lines in the sky.

Saturday, 15 May 2010

Saturday Night.....

Movie - Check
Bag of chips & dip - Check
Relaxing - Check
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Something small and black in the dip - Check
Bag of chips filled with ants - Check
Drink a liter of water to wash down the ants - Check

How the heck did I not notice them SICK!!!!!!!! Hmmmmmm not so relaxed now serves me right for trying!!!

Friday, 7 May 2010

Donate Now.......

John Vivian is fundraising for The George Muller Charitable Trust - JustGiving

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OK I know that many of you who read this already support me financially (thank you once again) but I wanted to add this in for my friends (Martin and Simon) who are running the 3 peaks challenge next Friday/Saturday (14th/15th) to raise money for our Foundation.

They are both volunteers here and have covered all their own travel expenses etc so all money raised comes directly to the Foundation.

So if you feel that you have a spare £1 or more please feel free to show them some love too. Thank you :)

Thursday, 6 May 2010

For the girls who touch my heart

I have written this after a long discussion with the girls at the institution who have now been put on monthly injections - I presume to save money from the pill and sanitary towels. I wanted to share that talk with you.


They make the decision for us they say we have no choice
They take that right away from us as they take our voice
The big wigs, the directors that keep us in their lairs
They tell us to believe in Christ yet take away our prayers
It’s something that’s so simple a right for every woman
Biology’s way of telling us this month no baby’s coming
I understand they don’t want us to end up in that bind
We are children after all not in body but in mind
But to force us on injections to take away the pill
To take away our cycle well it takes away free will
Some people they would love to lose that monthly cycle pain
But I don’t want that not at all I want to feel that strain
Without it I feel I go mad, the pressure makes me cry
I pound my fists I pull my hair I feel like I might die
I want to leave this prison but there’s nowhere else to go
So I will sit here silently, feeling crazed and all alone.